Friday, July 20, 2018

Five on Friday

Hi friends! We have had such a great, relaxing week at home. We have gone HARD this summer and done so many fun things so it was very welcoming to have a full week at home to just be together. I go back to work on Monday so I was soaking in every sweet second with my boys. I thought I'd share five little snippets from my week...

1- The boys and I popped into my classroom earlier this week and I was so excited to see all these supplies + tons more waiting for me. Teacher Christmas!! I am really excited to start back next week!

2- I bought Shep these Keds and I am obsessed with them on him! I know we will get tons of wear out of them this fall. I want to get him a navy pair for his birthday : )

3- Since we've been home I've listened to a lot of Podcasts this week.

  • Journey Women | Wisely Navigating Smartphone Use with Tony Reinke | Ep. 57
    • This one was incredibly timely for me. There were so many great, practical, tips for using Smartphones. One of the things that really jumped out at me was the fact that not everyone needs to be on social media, and not everyone needs to be off of it. For a lot of people it's an area of ministry and the Lord can really use it to draw people closer to him.
  • The Happy Hour with Jamie Ivey | Happy Hour #202: Brittany Price Brooker
    • If you follow Brittany on social media or you know her and Daniel's story then you know this one did not disappoint. I don't think I will ever grow tired of hearing her speak and her intense faithfulness in the Lord. I have learned so much from her ability to point to Jesus in all circumstances. 
  • Simple Families | SFP 115: The Benefits of Rowdy Play [with Frances Carlson of Big Body Play]
    • I originally listened to this because #BoyMama but honestly it was so so good for me as a teacher as well! They discussed the reasons why "big body play" is developmentally appropriate, as well as necessary for children. I loved the way they broke down play with children with sensory needs. It was very fascinating and informative!
  • Simply Life on Purpose | Ep. 36 | How to Simplify Meal Planning with Natasha Red
    • This was another very timely podcast as I just posted about our simple meal planning + grocery shopping routine earlier this week. Natasha gave a lot of really great ways to meal plan seasonally. 

4- We have been loving the new season of Outdaughtered. Bennett LOVES to watch it with me. We always laugh because Adam and Danielle are just like Me and my's hilarious to us. Also, seeing how calm and organized Danielle is with the quints + a 7 year old just amazes me!!

5- I can't believe it's already time to start thinking about it, but Shepard's 2nd birthday is about a month and a half away.. I really can't believe it. We don't do big birthday parties (yet) so we're looking forward to celebrating him with a Taco Tuesday Fiesta dinner with our families!

Sunday, July 15, 2018

Meal Planning + Grocery Shopping

Last week on Instagram I used the new "Ask me a Question" feature on Instastories. I got a ton of different questions and shared the answers on my story. One of the questions I got several times was about our meal planning and grocery shopping routine.

As we continue to make our lives more and more simple one of the areas we've really been able to make that happen is in meal planning and grocery shopping. Every week Adam and I plan our meals for the week together and make a grocery list accordingly. Our goal each week is to make as many meals as we can with things we already have at home (including whatever we have from our garden) and stay within $100 each week with our groceries. This naturally helps us save money but also helps us create the most simple meals we can with simple ingredients. Simple meals=easy prep + easy clean up. Also, we really believe that feeding our boys simple foods helps create non-picky eaters. Something I read in the book 'Simplicity Parenting' is that high flavored foods such as Doritos actually make more simple foods such as carrots less flavorful. I won't say my kids never eat foods like that because that's just not true but our everyday foods, the foods that are available in our home and the foods we serve at mealtimes, are typically more simple.

We typically cook at home 4-5 nights per week, we have small group once a week where we eat dinner (we rotate hosting so every 5-6 weeks we cook for our whole group at our house), and we go out 1-2 nights per week. We also don't really buy a ton of processed snack foods. We usually get veggie straws and/or goldfish but other than that the boys eat fresh fruit and veggies for most snacks.

Something that we used to do that I found very helpful for creating a simple and rhythmic dinner time was having different types of meals on certain days each week. For example: Monday- chicken, Tuesday- pasta, Wednesday- soup, etc. We did that for the first few years of our marriage but it's definitely something I think we'll go back to eventually. It makes planning and prep very simple but also creates some consistency for the boys.

As far as grocery shopping we have found that we can get the best deals and the best selection at our Walmart Neighborhood Market. I don't know if it's because it's not a typical Walmart or if its because it's still fairly new but we are SO impressed with the selection and availability. It is so clean, they have good produce, and are never out of stock. We switched to Kroger for about a year because of the Clicklist option but once our Neighborhood Market started offering pickup we switched back!

Grocery pickup obviously has major perks like not having to get out of the car with two toddlers BUT for us the financial aspect has been why we use it so much. Since we like to keep to our less than $100 budget each week this really helps us stay on track. We typically place our grocery order on Saturday afternoon and we pickup after church on Sundays. This has become a routine that the boys come to expect.

By having this routine in place meal planning and grocery shopping really aren't something we dread. They are just part of our weekly routine and something that we can do effortlessly at this point. If you are someone who struggles to meal plan try simplifying the types of dinners you cook. The less ingredients you are searching the grocery store for, the less time you're preparing dinner because you know the recipe by heart, the more time you have to spend with your family, and the less stressed out you are when it comes time to sit around the table.


This past weekend I decided to take a little hiatus from social media. A couple of different factors contributed to my decision but I'm excited to see what the Lord teaches me over the next few weeks or months. I'm not sure how long I'll be gone but I do plan to continue blogging so check back occasionally for new posts :)

Tuesday, July 10, 2018

Simple + Slow

I can still vividly remember the moment it all clicked for me. I was sitting in a playroom FULL of toys for my less than one year old. I literally felt the walls caving in. I felt trapped by the amount of STUFF in such a small place.

Anyone who has been down the road of simplifying knows the feeling that happens when you start purging, organizing, and getting back to the basics. I went in full force and decluttered our entire house. For me, it became much more about mental clarity. I started realizing that the more stuff I had around me the less I was able to focus.

Over the last several years we have worked hard to create a minimal life. It started with our home but quickly spilled over into all areas of my life: finances, schedules, routines, rhythms, and even my parenting. 

For us, a simple life and finances really went hand in hand. We were able to strip it down to the bare necessities to figure out we really didn't need to spend a lot of money. We are able to focus the bulk of our money on very quickly paying off my grad school student loan, saving, and planning for big purchases. Using the EveryDollar app to track our purchases and plan our savings has been instrumental for us and has really allowed us to continue spending the least amount of money as possible and being very strategic about the big purchases we do make.

Our schedules started to free up when we realized we didn't have to fill every waking second with an activity. Days at home have truly become our favorite. Our home has become a place of refuge for me. A place of peace and comfort and the place I would rather spend my days than anywhere else. When we first had Bennett I was in grad school, getting my gifted endorsement, and working an hour away from home. Basically my schedule was packed to the brim and I was so proud of ALL the things I was doing. It wasn't until I was not doing all.the.things that I realized how insane that was and not beneficial for my well-being, or the well-being of my family. I am more proud of my ability to say no and to live by Philippians 1:9-11 And this is my prayer; that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes from Jesus Christ -- to the glory and praise of God. 

routines + rhythms: 
We have always been routined but once our lives really became more minimal we realized creating rhythms was just another way to streamline our lives and make them as simple as possible. We do many things the same way, in the same order, everyday. This may sound boring to some, but it gives me peace and comfort and predictability and I thrive on that. Things like laundry, dishes, and cleaning do not overwhelm us. We are equal partners in getting all the things done and when you have less stuff you have less stuff to clean. We make it a point to do simple things like a loud of laundry every day, run the dish washer every night, keep a tidy home by cleaning as we go, etc. These small things add up to a home that is livable (hello, we have two boys!) but also clean, orderly, and welcoming.

parenting + homemaking:
The biggest area that minimalism has impacted me personally is in my parenting. Like I said, the moment it all hit me was in a playroom full of loud, bright, flashing toys...for my 9 month old. Most of the items were gifts from very loving and well meaning people, but when they were all in one place it became VERY overwhelming for me. When I took it all away, went back to the absolute basics,  I started to see play in a way that I had never seen before. Our boys are very imaginative, creative, and honestly just happier kids with less. (side note: the book simplicity parenting radically helped me in this area. It is a must read. I have read it several times and get so much out of it every time). I'm going to share more about our playroom and the types of toys we have very soon : )

Embracing a simple + slow life has been SUCH a process for me, and probably always will be, but it's something that I feel so strongly about. I am far from perfect and still have a lot of areas that I can work on, but the thing that I have learned is that the freedom that comes from living with less is worth far more than any possession I could ever hold.